Category Archives: Tulum

Swimsuit Triggers and Focusing on Joy

Here we are: summertime, swimsuit time, and it’s hard to let go of judgmental thoughts of my body.

I remember the first time being worried about wearing a swimsuit. I was at a youth activity (maybe I was 14?) at a pool about an hour away from home. For some reason I didn’t have a suit, so my mom gave me money to rent one. Yikes a rental suit.

It was a one piece with huge cut outs on the sides and I felt super self conscious wearing it.

I’ve always been very physically active so I’m guessing I looked fine. I don’t have the wherewithal to make that judgment looking back and that’s ok. I did struggle with acne -seems like I did forever (obviously that’s not a fact) so I had judgements about my face.

Every summer I try to find a swimsuit I can feel comfortable and try not to judge my body. I play in the pool with my grandkids, I play in the ocean, I play in the lake, I play in the sprinklers. I love the water-I wear lots of sunscreen because the rosacea on my face doesn’t like the sun but I love the water.

The last couple of years I’ve purchased two piece suits to practice nonjudgment about my body; plus it’s easier to find separates that fit my top and bottom better.

Here’s another summer where I am triggered to judge my body as not good enough and I’m trying to be mindful of those old crazy thoughts (that are not facts) and in the moment to just enjoy the water. Just enjoy the water.

Here I am off Grand Cayman trying to hold a stingray

Here I am in Jamaica riding a horse in the ocean.

Here I am in Tulum Mexico in the prettiest water ever.

Yes I think it’s more important to enjoy.

Vacation Land

Hello friends!

I’m home from my vacation but I thought to give you a rundown on all the fun things to do and fun things we did on a Carnival Cruise!

I’ve told you about my first two days and the bamboo massage and facial; I highly recommend btw! This post will focus on our day at Cozumel and Tulum!

We arrived at Cozumel around 8am and were able to get off the ship to take a taxi and meet our tour at another pier. We took the tour through Shipmate Shore Excursions-shoreexcursionsgroup.com Tour of Tulum/ruins. We took a ferry to mainland and then a 40 minute van ride to Tulum. The ruins are amazing-and our local guide told us so many interesting details about the Mayan people, their customs, calendar, and symbols of the ruins- it is not to be missed if you ever go! I also got my daily steps goal plus a few thousand walking around.

There is a steep stair case behind the ruins leading to the most gorgeous beach and I played in the ocean for about an hour. The sand is like powdered sugar it’s so soft and the ocean is a brilliant turquoise. It was amazing; and looking up at the ruins while a ways out in the water was spectacular! I didn’t think to take my water proof case out there I was having so much fun, so no pic 😦

We then made our way back to the van meeting place where our guides had picked us up some lunch for the drive back. I was famished but love Tulum. I think I want to live there! 😊

We finished the day by taking the ferry back to Cozumel and boarding the ship (but first I found a “day of the dead” sarong to match my red swimsuit-life is good!