The holidays can be a difficult time for many people and sometimes those suffering can experience thoughts of suicide or self harm.
Here are some ideas to help if you’ve had these thoughts: I’ve coached many clients to manage these distressful thoughts by using DBT skills and it works very well!
When first experiencing suicide or self harm thoughts can be very painful and distressing, use the TIPP skill (temperature, intense exercise, paced breathing, or paired muscle relaxation)
Temperature-hold an ice cube or dunk your face into an ice/cold water bowl for at least 5 seconds.
Intense exercise-run on a treadmill or outside for 3 minutes at a full sprint.
Paced breathing-deep breathing -slowly count to 4 as you breathe in, hold your breathe for 4 seconds, breathe out for 4 seconds and hold for 4 seconds-repeat for a couple of minutes.
Paired muscle relaxation-starting from your toes- tenae every muscle group for 5 seconds and then release- moving you to your head and face.
After having done all of TIPP, people are usually quite tired and in a different frame of mind but just in case…get involved in an activity with a friend, do something kind for someone else, connect with someone who loves you… and always important: make sure you get enough sleep, nutrition, exercise, and medications if any are recommended for you along with meeting with a professional.
I hope these tips (haha TIPP) help anyone who struggles in this area. Know you are important ❤️